More than a blog.....

This post is purely of my idea. Any resemblance to living characters is purely unintentional. Yes, this blog is the only way i can pour out my feelings. Not fully though. This blog is between a diary and a friend. You may write everything in a diary. But telling everything to a friend means that friend is part of your soul. Means you TRUST them and expect them to respect your feelings. What would you do if that person himself/herself doesn't care about your feelings. Well. You may feel a little depressed. Maybe a little angry.

People would expect you to change. None would like a person who keeps on insulting others. Initially people may take it as a joke. But sooner or later people would start telling that they hate that habit and tell that person to change. "Love people as they are" is possibly the worst dialogue ever. Loved people expect each other to change so as not to hurt each other. If they can't even change, there's no point in that friendship. Mean you are friends with some person 'A' and you want 'A' to change a thing which actually hurts you. But you find that 'A' likes doing that thing the most and that 'A' can't change that habit for you. You find yourself in the middle. Stuck. You would have been expecting 'A' to tell a sorry at-least and tell you that he/she would change that habit. But 'A' doesn't even care. You have no choices. Either ignore 'A' when he/she does that thing. Else stay away from 'A' itself. 1st choice may sound easy. But its the toughest option ever possible. You can never ever pretend not to notice your closest person. Second would seem the toughest. But that would eventually sound the best option ever. If 'A' cant respect your feelings then you should learn to give 'A' his/her own space and leave off. Just leave them alone for a while till they realise their mistake. They will come on their own accord. "Love people as they are" and "Learn to accept people as they are" is total crap. It may be the best thing with respect to ordinary friends. Not with respect to close ones.

Signing off with my last ever post in this wonderful blog...

Arun.